Friday, September 9, 2016

How to Chalk Paint Your Furniture

-For people who normally suck at things like Chalk Painting furniture.



    For all of you who are terrified to tackle a huge piece of ugly (used to be beautiful in the 90’s) cherry wood furniture, this is for you. If you normally destroy nearly everything that requires manual labor, this is for you. You can do this. If I can, you can. My husband and I do projects like this together and have so much fun! If you’re super busy all the time like us, just take it ONE STEP AT A TIME! We can typically get a piece done in two days or so just working just one to two hours in the evening. If you need some alone time, this is so therapeutic. Just play your favorite music or podcast (I HIGHLY recommend Dear Sugar) and paint!!

What you need:
·         Piece of furniture that needs some love
·         Some kind of drop cloth (blankets my puppy chewed holes in worked great for us)
·         Chalk Paint
·         Crème Wax
·         Sand Paper
·         Paint Brush
**If you furniture has hardware you can either paint over it or you can take it off and paint it with spray paint. I selected a dark grey matte color that was $5.99 at Hobby Lobby (but of course, I used a coupon). It took two coats! Oh, and you probably need a screwdriver to take the hardware off. My husband obviously did this part. 

Tips on buying what you need:
·         Michael’s & Hobby Lobby both carry the Americana Décor Chalky Finish paint. A small 8 fl oz container will work great for things like a pair of night stands, a medium sized table, a bed, etc. These are typically $8.99 a container but with a coupon (you can nearly ALWAYS find one for either store on www.retailmenot.com for about 40% off). This means a container should be around $6.00. I LOVE this brand. It goes on very thick and the quality is GREAT!! Wal-mart also has chalk paint for $4.96. I have never used this so I can’t speak on the quality of it.
**if you are doing a very large project like kitchen cabinets (we did this) or a dresser set, you can mix your own. My dad actually mixed us about 5 quarts and that’s the off white color that you see on some of our furniture. I actually suggest buying a small container already mixed and ready to go if you are only doing a single piece of furniture. It is more headache to mix it than it is to spend $6. And honestly, with the materials you need to mix it you will probably spend more than that anyway.
·         Crème Wax is typically a little more expensive than the chalk paint. You can get an 8 fl oz for $11.99 at Hobby Lobby or Michael’s (but again, you can use a coupon and get it for around $8). This is in the section with the Chalk Paint! It is in a container that looks just like Chalk Paint. Wal-mart also has a version (once again, I haven’t actually tried this) for $4.96 that is also with the Chalk Paint.
·         Brushes- You don’t need the nicest brush for this. We both love the 1.5” brush that I bought at Big Lots the most.
·         Sand Paper- This is really just your preference. I let my husband pick this out. It should be less than $2 - $3 for a pack of 6 sheets. 

Pictures of some of the things you need: 





Okay, so what do I actually do?
1.)    Put your furniture piece on the drop cloth that you selected. Make sure to wipe off any dust or randomness that could be hanging out on your furniture with a rag.
2.)    Paint a coat of Chalk Paint with your brush. It does not need to be perfect! Let the first coat dry completely.
3.)    Do another coat of Chalk Paint. We typically do another coat on the top of whatever furniture we’re doing since it’s used more than the rest of the furniture. Just judge it by what you think looks good!
4.)    After the paint has completely dried, get out your sand paper. Sand the edges or whatever you want to create a distressed look. You don’t have to even do this if you don’t want the distressed look.
5.)    Get the dusty stuff off of your furniture. We use the attachment on our vacuum cleaner to make sure we get it all.
6.)    After it’s dried, sanded, and wiped down, get out your wax! Put a coat (or two) of the clear wax on your furniture.
7.)    If you have painted some hardware, but the hardware on it after the wax has dried. If you just painted over the hardware or didn’t have any to begin with, carry on with your life.
Don’t freak out if something isn’t perfect, it’s distressed furniture. It’s not supposed to look perfect. That’s what makes it interesting and pretty.


You have just created a magical piece of furniture with your own stamp of awesomeness. Congratulations! 


Here are pictures of our most current magical furniture creations:

Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Marriage Comments by People Types


           “Marriage.” This word freaks a lot of people out. And while this is an extremely scary word (it technically denotes FOREVER and FOREVER is a really, really long time), it doesn’t have to have a negative connotation. As a newlywed myself, I can tell you the most annoying, yet telling, comment that drives me insane. When someone asks me “How is married life?” (And I get this multiple times daily) and I say “It’s going great!” or “It’s wonderful!” and I get an “Oh, just wait” or an “Oh yeah, you’re still a newlywed.” It doesn’t scare me about the future of my marriage, it just tells me how miserable of a person you are. I don’t always get this, though. I sometimes get an “It’s a team effort, but it’s so wonderful” or a “That’s great! I wish you guys the best!” Do you see the difference? Person Type #1: The “Person who can’t be happy for anyone else.” My advice to those people: don’t ask a generally happy individual how a happy time in their life is going if you don’t want a happy answer. Just stay in your miserable, sad little shell while I hang out with Person Type #2: The “Even though my first marriage failed, I still have hope for others,” Person Type #3: “I’m actually happily married too, I’m glad to see you are too,” and Person Type #4: “I may/may not get married in the future but I am glad someone else is happy during a happy time.”

            All of the previously mentioned People Types do have a point, I promise. My mom gave me some REALLY awesome advice a long time ago and it is advice I would give to any other person in the entire world. She basically said if you’re not happy in your relationship, don’t get married. This sounds like complete common sense, but if you think about it, you probably know several people that are in relationships and miserable and those same miserable people do something crazy unheard of: GET MARRIED. WHY!!?!?!? If you're miserable in your relationship, you are also going to be miserable in a marriage. If you're just miserable all the time about everything, please just stay single and don't even get a cat. They don't deserve that...  

A while ago a lady at a drive-thru in Greenwood asked me how married life was (before you ask: yes, I make friends with everyone, especially food people because they’re THE BEST people). I said “It’s great! It’s not really that different except we spend more time together.” She, as a Person Type #3, said “Well, it’s not supposed to be a lot different if you’re happy to begin with!” That really put my mom’s advice from a long time ago into perspective. Marriage shouldn’t be this entirely different world if you’re already healthy and happy relationship. Marriage doesn’t automatically make everything harder, it just brings new challenges along the way.

No, I don’t consider myself a marriage genius and yes, like other human beings, my husband and I have disagreements sometimes…. But as a person with 25 years of life experience, I will say that generally if you’re positive about something, your outcome has a much larger likelihood of also being positive. If you’re negative about everything, you’re obviously going to be negative in your relationship (and eventual marriage if you’re lucky to find someone to deal with your negativity). In closing, EVERYTHING is what you make it, marriage included. So if you want a positive life, be positive. Of course we all have hardships and sad days and the occasional “I pity myself and am very negative because I’m having a bad hair day and nothing you say can make it better” days, but those of us who can eventually snap out of it are going to be okay. We will hopefully lead generally happy, positive, and productive lives. Negative Nancy’s, perk up, smile a little and skip the marriage advice!